Showing posts with label Christmas. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Christmas. Show all posts

December 12, 2014

7QTs about the Christmas spirit and duct tape


1 - L had her school Christmas concert earlier this week. The seventh graders always learn to sign a couple of songs in ASL instead of singing them. "Hey Moon" by Sidewalk Prophets was one of the songs they signed and it was beautiful. I thought I'd share it here because I really enjoyed it.


This is my super cropped photo so I don't show anyone else's kid's face. But I still wanted to share it because L is holding her candy cane the right way. She had told me that morning that she was nervous because during the "J is for Jesus" part of their "Candy Cane Song" she held her candy cane so it made a J for her, not the people watching. Right before she went on stage I even prayed to her Guardian Angel and asked that he make sure she did it the right way. After the concert we both celebrated she had gotten it right. She was so proud and so was I. 



2 - They other day at my mom group someone mentioned how expensive bras can be. I piped up in agreement and mentioned that my bra's underwire had just started poking out and was hurting me. "I wonder if I can duct tape it?"

My friend Jen - without being the teeniest bit condescending even though she could have because, seriously? Duct tape, Bonnie? - said, "Why don't you just stitch it up?" 

Since the rest of the bra is in really great shape I saved myself $60 or a a trashy duct taped bra and stitched those suckers back into place like a real domesticated lady, which I am actually, obviously not.


3 - The Feast Days. On Monday I spent a lot of time gazing at this image.

(The Sisters of Our Lady of the Mississippi Abbey sell it.)

There's so much I love about this image: the shame in Eve’s face and the love in Mary’s, the way Mary holds Eve’s hand on her womb, like she's saying, “He’s kicking; here, feel. He will make all things news. It’s okay. It’s okay.”
We also ate rice krispie treats for dessert, after the kids did fairly well at the 6pm Mass. Fr. Julius said they were good, though, and so that was good enough for me. I'm not sure who started the tradition of white food on the Solemnity of the Immaculate Conception, but it sounded like a great reason to have rice krispie treats. 

On Tuesday the Church celebrated St. Juan Diego but in our home we celebrated Venerable Fulton J. Sheen who died on December 9th 35 years ago. L and Ben took chocolate chip cookies to school to celebrate; JF took rice krispie treats. At our moms group we ate tortilla chips and Old EL PASO salsa since Sheen was born in El Paso, Illinois. For dinner we had a hearty Midwestern meal of venison meatloaf, smashed sweet potatoes, biscuits, green beans.

Tonight we were hoping to have some friends over for a mini fiesta in honor of Our Lady of Guadalupe but then poor Resa got sick. She doesn't look very sick, does she?

So we'll be having beans and rice for dinner and drink Mexican hot chocolate all by ourselves. Then we'll pray a rosary in Spanish. I’m just dreaming, we won't pray a rosary, let alone in Spanish.

Saturday we’ll possibly have Santa Lucia rolls for breakfast and then head out for a tree farm. We’ll put up our tree and then possibly drive around, looking at Christmas lights.


4 - Usually we put up our tree on Guadete Sunday but this year I’ll be speaking in Park Forest, Illinois that day. If any of you guys live in the south suburbs of Chicago it would be great if you could join me at St. Mary’s Parish in Park Forest on Sunday at 2pm. I think they’re having light refreshments afterwards and Travis and our friend Mia will be with me so there's three more good reasons to come! I'm pretty excited because we get to have lunch with our favorite bread makers ever - the Marconis!

And hey! If you read the blog and will be there let me know. Leave a comment here or on FB so I can be on the look out for you. :)


5 - So my friend Katie is amazing. Her cousin sent her a picture of a silly Christmas hairdo and dared Katie to wear it to work one day. Katie, who works at a Catholic school, said No. Her cousin came back and said she'd make a donation to charity if Katie did it. 

As Sherlock would say, "The game is on!"

Katie opened it up and said that anyone who made a donation to her parish's St. Vincent de Paul food pantry (money or canned goods) could make a request. I asked for gaudy earrings.

In the end she raised $327 and a box of canned goods. Here's the hairdo that started it all


And here's the whole look.

I am so impressed with Katie and her humility, generosity, and good spirit. I'm pretty sure that I'm too vain to look this ridiculous. 


6 - Last night we were driving and the kids wanted to sing Rudolph the Red Nosed Reindeer. So I started singing, "Rudolph the red nosed reindeer had a very shiny nose..." and then L cut me off.

L: We need to start at the beginning.
Me: This is the beginning.
L: Not in my book.

Travis and I laughed, even harder because she meant what she said. She has a book with Christmas carol lyrics and that begins the song with the list of reindeer names.


7 - I know I already posted pictures of my mantel but I wasn't very happy with it so it got  a little make over. The nativity that sat there was moved to the bookshelf in the living room and the one that was on the bookshelf in the living room was moved to our home altar in the dining room.

Then I tucked some garland behind the stocking holders and ran some pretty star lights through it. I added some silver ornaments that were used to decorate for my December wedding 8 years ago.


Then in the void above I started taping up Christmas cards. So far I've got three from family members, two from blogger friends, one from a woman I've been friends with since kindergarten, one from a friend at my old parish, and two from friends at my new parish. I hope it grows!


I love it. By next year I hope to have a large white frame, probably made from scrap lumber, that has twine or lights running the length of it in 3 rows, which I'll hang the cards from. Something like this.



Thank you, Kelly, for hosting!

December 28, 2013

Seven Quick Takes


1 - Phil's back on the show and all is well with the world. The funny thing about that whole hullabaloo is that the night before Facebook exploded with beards-of-support my daughter was donning her own facial hair.
Her school Christmas concert had the theme "Faith, Family, and Facial Hair," which is a bit of an inside joke from the first all school Mass following the tornado that went through town in November. Some of the older kids dressed like the men from Duck Dynasty and sang "Hairy Christmas and a Happy Happy Happy New Year" and at the end of the concert all the kids k-8 put their mustaches (or beards) on and sang an homage to our pastor, who himself has a 'stache.

The whole evening was super sweet. It was so great to be at a school program with real Christmas carols, talking about Jesus (along with Santa), and prayer. I think the evening was also really good for the community, since so many of our school families have lost their homes.


2 - Speaking of L's school: I helped with her class Christmas party. I was in charge of the craft. We made pretty candle holders with tissue paper, glue, and little nativities that I stamped and then cut out until my hand cramped. I had a whole spiel planned to talk about how Christ is the Light of the world, how He shines in us, how when we look at the candle we can think of how He is the Light that shines on the people in darkness. Buuuuut that spiel was never given and I guess we can just hope they got it. 


3 - I wasn't sure how to spell the word "spiel", which can also be spelled "schpeel." So of course I googled it and learned that the word is a Scottish term for game and word in the Yiddish prison culture. Who knew?


4 - Getting ready for Christmas we had a snow day and a cookie baking day. 


The snow was a hit, even if that carrot and hat never made it on a snowman's head.

 My nut, egg, and dairy free cookies were not, even if they look super pretty.


5 - The week leading up to Christmas was crazy. On Tuesday Ben ate fudge with nuts, which landed us in the E.R. On Wednesday, one week before Christmas, I finally had money to do my gift shopping. Thursday JF was sick. Friday night Ben woke us up by vomiting on Travis. Saturday Travis was in bed for the day and I discovered Resa was sick when she threw up all over JP, poor baby. Sunday it was my turn and Monday was L's. Fortunately by Christmas Eve everyone was well enough to go to my mom's. 

I know some people have been really sick but ours was just a 12 hour bug that hopped from one person to the next. It wasn't fun, but I know others who have had it a lot worse. 


6 - Here's the family in our Christmas best, posing after Mass. JFs is holding the gift that our pastor gave every member of our parish. Literally every person who comes to Mass on Christmas Vigil or Christmas Day receives a gift. In the past he has given the Bible, the Catechism, a book of prayers, a book on Mary, Three to Get Married, and this year he gave everyone Rome Sweet Home and a CD from Lighthouse Media. Isn't that awesome?!

And here's a little picture of one of my gifts. My mother in law pre-ordered me a copy of Jennifer Fulwiler's Something Other Than God.


7 - Kendra was really super sweet and included me in her Thank You notes 7QT. I cannot believe that Kendra has only been on the blog scene for a year. (A year!) Her fondness for zombies, her excellent taste in pop music, her generosity, and despite her dislike for SLP - she has become one of my favorite bloggers and I'm glad to have her as a friend.

HOWEVER! Kendra, you really should have included some music to read by in your 7QT. May I suggest, muchas gracias a Jimmy Fallon and The Roots, official music for writing Thank You notes.

If you haven't read her post yet I encourage you to first click on the music link and then click on over to Kendra's, which you should do because she's doing a baby blanket and a copy of her new book give-away. JP and I will tell you that she makes the best baby blankets!


Thanks, Jennifer, for hosting! I hope you fell better soon!

December 25, 2013

Bring a torch: an invitation



Merry Christmas to you all!

May God bless you and all those you love and serve.

And now, if I may be so bold (and good Lord, I hope this doesn't come off as cheesy) but...

If you don't have a personal, loving relationship with God, I hope you will answer the call to "bring a torch" so you can meet Jesus. God loves you so very, very much and He is yearning for you to come near to Him. If you are not Catholic, I invite you to consider joining the Catholic Church, this Church and faith that I love so much, that is so full of beauty and truth, that has led me closer to God, that has spoken to my soul and moved my heart. If you are a fallen away Catholic, I invite you to come back to the Church you were baptised into. (We miss you in the pews!)

If you have any questions about Christianity in general or Catholicism in particular I invite you to email me and ask.

December 16, 2013

Books for under the Christmas Tree

This Christmas I'm all about the books.


Books I'm going to give to my kids:
For my kindergartner: This book was so sweet. I'm giving it to L because it's about a little girl at a Catholic school - just like her! I really love the illustrations and I know L will like the book - and the time we spend reading it together.
by Emily Ortega

For all the kiddos: The following Christmas books were all recommended by bloggers whose opinions I really respect. So if Kendra, Charlotte, or Haley said it was good I'm going to believe that it's good. I'm trying to build our family's collection of quality Christmas books because I really want to do the whole "unwrap a book each day of Christmas and read it together" and this will get me closer to the goal of 12 good, solid Christmas books. So in no particular order:
by Frank McCourt

by Barbara Berger

by Gloria Whelan

by Richard Scarry

by Margaret Wise Brown

There's the books I'm going to give adults:
For my dad, who is incredibly difficult to shop for. Last year I just baked him a bunch of chocolate chip cookies but now he had diabetes (not my fault!) so giving him cookies again would kinda seem like a death threat, don't ya think? But the man loves John Wayne and he started practicing his faith again after JF was born so I am really excited to get him this book:


For a friend. He doesn't really read books but he does drive a lot and I'm pretty sure that he'll really enjoy this book. So it's an audio book for him, which I think will pretty much be the same thing as giving him an audio copy of one of Jim Gaffigan's stand-up routines. And maybe I'll give him some Hot Pockets, too, because I'm good at doing things I think are hilarious but no one else understands.
by Jim Gaffigan

For a friend. Mary Beth founded the mom group at my parish and is really wonderful, even if she thinks I'm living my life with one foot in the grave. She makes the most delicious vegetable soups, salads, and is always cooking with healthy, real food and I'm bringing in cinnamon rolls. When I first heard about this cookbook / Christian living book I knew that I wanted to get a copy for Mary Beth.
by Daniel and Haley Stewart

For someone who reads my blog and so I will therefore say nothing else. Except that I read this book and it was hilarious and really, really moving. Seriously, people, I loved it and I can't wait to share it with my loved one.
by Cari Donaldson

And the book I want:
I seriously asked my mother-in-law to wrap a certificate saying she had pre-ordered the book for me. I don't know if I'll get it but if I don't I'm using the money my grandpa always gives me to buy it.
by Jennifer Fulwiler


December 10, 2013

oh I don't even know

Let's start off with pictures of my now five month old son. Because we can. And he's cute.


We're counting down to Christmas and this sign is actually just stressing me out. But it cost $1 at Target and it makes my kids happy so we'll still consider it a win. 


Leggings - I still don't know if I should be wearing them, but they're just so comfortable and I probably won't look good in anything until I lose a good 50lbs that I just don't really even care. (Okay, that's a total lie. I do care but I'm trying to not care so I don't spiral.)


Advent calendar - we've done about 1/3 of them so far but they sure look pretty.


I kinda burned dinner but I'm gonna say it's caramelized and call it a win. Ben however isn't buying it. He tried a bit and said it wasn't good. "The flavor is so BAD."

Recently I discovered that all those crock pot meals of mine can actually be cooked in a pot on a stove and it can actually still be pretty easy and in some cases even yummier. That being said, I am in no way knocking crock pots.


My new little treat is pomegranate seeds. I keep a container of them in the fridge and pretty much every time I open it up I grab a handful.

So does she.

The thief.


Want to hear one more thing about food? Sure ya do! Okay. Clementines are in season and they are so. flippin. good! Now in the past I have eaten clementines like a banshee when I was pregnant but that's not the case now. In case anyone is keeping track I am unpregnant right now. The neat thing is that all the kids are eating them too. Everyone grabs one, I start the peeling, they take over, Resa has juice running down her chin, JF keeps asking for more, and I find piles like this all over the house.
But you know what? I don't care! I love it!



I'm sorry. That's wasn't nice to leave you with that ear worm. Here's something better.

November 30, 2013

Thanksgiving is just pre-gaming for Christmas

A friend posted a picture from Wednesday. Her boys were in their pj's, standing by their Christmas tree. The stockings and nativity were on the mantel. She said they all watched A Charlie Brown Christmas shortly after the picture was taken. It was the night before Thanksgiving.

Another friend posted a different picture - family gathered and visiting on Thanksgiving day - with a big, cheery Christmas tree in the background.

Leaving my mom's house on Thanksgiving evening I counted four homes on her street already lit with lights and Christmas decorations. 

At first I was mad. Really, really put off. And then I became sad. And now I'm a pretty good portion of the both of them with a forced heaping helping of trying-not-to-care-what-other-people-do. 

But, hold the gravy, people! What is going on here?

I'm trying to understand why people don't seem to care as much about Thanksgiving any more, why they treat it as little more than a pre-gaming event for Christmas, and I just can't figure it out. I do not understand. But gosh, do I ever miss Thanksgivings of my childhood.


My older cousins tossing a football outside. Homes decorated inside and out with cornstalks, straw bales, pumpkins and gourds. Wearing construction paper Indian headbands and pilgrim hats. Going to Mass to thank God for our blessings. Talking about American history and the first Thanksgiving. People visiting and playing games and napping during the long, quiet day.

Maybe I'm romanticizing my past, but I really think that my memories are correct: for most of my life the Christmas season didn't begin until firmly after Thanksgiving. Not just for Catholics and others who celebrate Advent - but everyone. Everyone. It was the culture of America.


People didn't leave Thanksgiving gatherings early to shop at Wal-Mart. (Wal-Mart, people!!) And they didn't sit around Christmas trees. Loved ones were more important than a good deal on a new thing. And gratitude - a real humble thankfulness - was significant enough that we didn't have to give ourselves warm fuzzies with twinkling lights and Christmas movies.

I wish we could go back to that - to the Thanksgiving of my childhood. Where we were so thankful for what we had that the gratefulness was enough. Where we all looked forward to a day of counting blessings, taking naps, and having some peace and quiet. 


Or maybe the grown-ups just did a really good job of making me think that's what it was. If it was all just a trick well kudos to them! It worked and I'd like to give the same to my kids. 

Black Friday comes soon enough - why not leave the tree-putting-up, crowded shopping centers, and all-Christmas-music-all-the-time radio stations for then? Why not really stop and foster a sense of appreciation for what we have before diving into a season of wishlists? Why not stop pre-gaming Christmas with Thanksgiving and just give thanks? Really, truly I am asking: why not?

December 28, 2012

7 quick takes


1 - I'm not sure if there's another carol that captures the emotions of the Christmas story better than the first verse of this one.

2 - If you didn't see it, here's a post I wrote called Holy Innocents - why it's best not to tell a grieving parent "God needed another angel".

3 - A mild 24 hour flu slowly made it's way through the house, though Travis and Resa were spared fortunately.  I am hoping and praying that we're in the clear now.  Hope you are all well!

4 - So, what did we bake for Christmas?  Great question!

Some from-scratch cinnamon rolls.  My mom always made these for Christmas and Easter mornings and since they're delicious I thought I should continue the tradition in my own home.

The recipe makes 3 dozen and one of them I shaped into a tea ring.  Or, well, I tried to.  I let the kids top it with some Christmas-y sprinkles which wasn't as exciting for them as they had hoped it would be.

Neighbors and great-grandparents also got a plate of cookies.  Chocolate crinkles, peanut butter choc chip cookies, peppermint kiss cookies, and sugar cut out cookies.  Delish.


5 - Christmas Eve was spent with my parents, which is pretty traditional. 
This is the "What I Wore on Christmas" part of the post. 
The only person whose outfit is worth mentioning is Ben who wore the catfish shirt with the googely eye.  He insisted and so I let him. Feliz Navidad.

I love the look on JF's face here.

Big present = big excitement

6 - Christmas morning looked like this:
New big kid bikes for the big kids.

In between the above picture and the next we attended Mass.  During the homily poor JF threw up.  The priest made an expression like, "Oh!" but just kept on talking.  The woman in the pew in front of me (whom I don't even know) turned around and grabbed my diaper bag so I could pull a scarf out of it.  JF and I went to the bathroom, leaving my mom with Resa, Ben, and L while Travis and my friend Jen went to get a bunch of paper towels to start cleaning up.  The couple in the pew ahead of us, turned and had Ben come sit with them so Mom wouldn't have her hands quite so full.  Another friend, who also happens to clean our church, came in and asked what I needed.  She got me a plastic bag to put JF's clothes in and took some Lysol spray to finish cleaning up.  So all this to say that no one was upset and everyone was really great about it.  It was awesome.

After Mass they played with their new grocery store, train tracks and Creaky Cranky.

My 7 month old baby girl, wearing the super cute outfit her great grandpa picked out for her.

7 - The rest of Christmas Day and the days since have been mostly spent watching movies, playing with toys, taking naps, and eating yummy food.  I hope you've been blessed this Christmas Season, too.

Thanks to Jen for hosting!


November 25, 2012

Special Announcement



P.S. - I will add a new tab at the top of my blog with all the links to each Advent post.  I know that when you hear an idea you like on December 20th it may be too late to put it into practice this Advent, but maybe not!  So you can revisit these posts, all conveniently gathered in one place, next fall so you and your family can adopt a new tradition next year.

P.P.S. - Please note that my hairdresser has been on maternity leave, so my lame bangs have a legit excuse.

January 4, 2012

7 quick takes



1 - Love Mat Kearney. Love this song.  Love.

2 - Lessons from a Tribunal is my latest post over at IGNITUM TODAY.  Here's a snippet of it:

The first thing I was taught is to never call it a miracle. I can talk about the miracle of life, a miracle on 34th Street, and the miracle of water changing into wine. I cannot talk about the miracle of my son being brought back to life because it isn’t one. Well, you know, I think it’s a miracle and probably you think it’s a miracle but the Roman Catholic Church takes their miracles VERY seriously and it is not an official miracle until they say so. The tribunal was an investigation into the alleged miracle of my son being brought back to life.
When you're done here, head on over to read the rest!

3 - Travis goes back to work on Monday.  I've so enjoyed him being home and I'm not ready for him to go back.  This is why we need a snow day.

4 - I have to say I am totally disappointed with the weather.  This year was supposed to be "snowmaggedon" with all kinds of deep, lasting snow.  This week we are once again looking at highs in the 50's and sunny skies.  And yes, I am bummed as I say that.

5 - NFP and Me has a great post up about natural family planning from a Protestant's perspective.  I really appreciated reading it and I encourage you to check it out. 

6 - Today is Epiphany.  Today the kids and I (mostly me) will sing "We Three Kings" as we move the wisemen to the stable.  And during their quiet time I'll wrap the gifts I bought on sale after Christmas and put them under the tree.  Because I totally forgot about doing it last night.  Ooops.

7 - Does anyone do anything special each of the 12 Days of Christmas to keep the Season going?  Now that we've got Advent down pretty well I'd like to do something for Christmas.  At this point all we do is say "Happy Birthday, Jesus!" while we light the white Christmas candle at meals and continue to play with the Melissa&Doug nativity set the kids have.  We need some more ideas, me thinks!

December 30, 2011

Christmas Review #3 - the 7 quick takes edition

-1-

What a beautiful song "In the Bleak Midwinter" is.  There's three verses that are usually not sung - maybe because they're a little too religiousy? - but nonetheless the last verse is still my favorite.  It's so easy for me to think about all the ways I'm not measuring up.  Sometimes it smacks more than just a little bit if I think about all the ways that what I'm giving isn't good enough.  But I'm giving God my heart and my life and I'm not trying to be someone else and see, that's all He wants anyways.  My life, my talents, my trials, my joys, my heart - that's much more valuable to Jesus than a sacrificial lamb or a box filled with gold.  Whew.

-2-
Of course I picked a Christmas carol because we are still in the octave of Christmas (eight days beginning with the 25th that are all celebrated by the Church with as much gusto as Christmas itself), which is within the 12 days of Christmas (the 26th - Jan 6th, aka Epiphany or the day the Magi brought the gifts). 
Today is five golden rings.

-3-
I've never cared for the song "The 12 Days of Christmas." 

-4-
All I wanted was a cute picture of my Christmas-best-wearin' kiddos in front of the tree.  This was maybe as good as it got.

-5-
Hey, here's some really good news:  I'm 20 weeks pregnant and I've only gained 4lbs.  That's pretty daw-gone good for me.  My total weight gain goal is 15-20lbs for the pregnancy and I'm thinking that if I can get through Christmas and only gain one pound and be pregnant, well I have a very good chance of meeting that goal.

-6-
Other really good news: 
Today I mark 5 years of being married to the best man evah!
My husband is awesome and I love him so much.  Yay us!
Also, December, after Christmas, is the best time to have a Catholic wedding.  The Church is decorated beautifully and so you save all kinds of money.  We plugged in the lights on the trees that were up, called it good, and received one compliment after another. 

-7-
Special prayer request:
My friend Alicia is asking for prayers for a friend and the friend's babies. 
Triplets Ryan, Norah, and Lucas were born at 24 weeks and are now in the NICU.  Please pray for their health, their mom who is recovering, and all the people who love them and are very worried.
Thank you for praying!